Attraction can be instantaneous, or it can grow over time as we get to know someone.
When seeing a Leeds Escort, what you want is instant attraction and when you meet, immediate chemistry. Chemistry is an elusive but unmistakable reaction that helps us figure out how sexually compatible with someone we are - like the touch of their fingers on your arm feeling like tiny fireworks.
Generally, what most people find attractive is simply looking young. These include features such as large, round eyes which are well-spaced, cheekbones that could cut glass, a large forehead, and a small nose and chin.
This is likely why many men are attracted to younger escorts. Their youthful looks make them appear to brim with vitality and energy, which are definitely appealing qualities in the bedroom. Younger-looking people are also seen as more honest and warm - definitely good qualities.
However, the fact that baby-faced adults are seen as less competent than their more mature qualities could hint to the rise in the popularity of MILFs - men like a woman who knows what she’s doing.
Another point for attraction is symmetrical faces - and bodies.
This is because symmetry makes people appear more healthy, which on a base level, is what we look for unconsciously when considering having children. As that is the root use of sex besides pleasure, it’s likely what makes some escorts more attractive to men.
Why do we like attractive people so much, if beauty is only skin-deep?
There’s a phrase in Korean that may shed some light on this - “Your face is fun!” Despite the insult this could appear to be, it actually means that someone’s face is fun and entertaining to look at - because of how attractive it is. It’s enjoyable to look at attractive people, triggering the reward centre of our brain. No wonder men go for such gorgeous, unearthly beautiful escorts.
How familiar we are with a face also influences our attraction.
If you’ve seen a certain escort before and had a relatively positive experience, it’s likely you’ll want to see her again. This is because we have a most likely protective fear of the unknown. Why go through the unknown experience of meeting a new escort, when you have someone you know and enjoy? This is also influenced by proximity liking - the more time we spend with someone, the more likely we are to like them.
We also tend to like people more when we’re in a good mood. You will normally want to see an escort when you’re in a good mood, which the expectation of sex definitely helps with. Someone reciprocating our attraction also helps us to like them more, and this is why many men enjoy seeing escorts - it’s nice to feel liked.
It seems obvious that we want to sleep with people we’re attracted to. But if that was all it is, why do so many men go for the girlfriend experience?
A girlfriend experience is where a client meets a woman to go out for dinner and drinks with, join him on a hobby, or just generally do something nice with. This can be followed with sex - or not.
The escort will make him feel cared for, valued, and listened to. She will also usually be an engaging conversationalist, witty and interesting. The demand for this service shows that attraction is more than skin-deep and more than just our subconscious biology at play.
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